LAGOS – Erotic films can elicit a wide range of responses and perspectives from couples in their relationships.

For some, such films are a source of entertainment and a way to increase their intimacy.

For these couples, watching erotic films together can spark new ideas and create a sense of shared adventure as they explore different aspects of their relationship.

It provides a platform for experimentation and shared experience that can strengthen the bond between partners.

On the other hand, there are also couples who consider erotic films unrealistic or even harmful to their relationship.

They find the content exaggerated, the acting poor and the scripts do not give a good picture of their own intimate world of experience.

They believe that such films do not improve their relationship, but rather create unrealistic expectations or cause misunderstandings and disagreements.

Separate interviews conducted by the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos on Sunday revealed these contrasting perspectives.

Mr Babatunde Kolawole, a businessman, told NAN that he sees erotic films as a positive addition to his relationship.

“It’s a fun way to explore new ideas. It’s not like we’re copying everything we see, but it’s a fun way to get inspired,” Kolawole said.

Fashion designer Chidinma Okonkwo also talked about the experience, but with a more light-hearted twist.

“My husband and I tried to watch an erotic movie together, but it ended up being more funny than anything.

“It was like our own personal comedy show. We just couldn’t take it seriously,” she said.

However, Mrs Abimbola Cole, an engineer, is strongly against the use of such films in relationships.

“We don’t need a scripted movie telling us how to let loose,” she said.

Cole goes beyond personal preferences and appeals to religious beliefs.

“It’s also immoral and my religion doesn’t accept it,” she explained.

Her comments highlighted the possible link between erotic films and unhealthy sexual attitudes.

“Erotic films objectify individuals and promote unhealthy attitudes toward sex.

“We must focus on mutual respect and understanding rather than unrealistic ideas of intimacy,” she stressed.

However, relationship therapist Dr. Jonathan Nelson noted, “While some couples view erotic films as a form of entertainment, it’s critical to understand that they can also create unrealistic expectations.”

Another relationship expert, Ms. Vera Oluwa, advised couples not to compare themselves to people in erotic films.

According to her, actors in films seem to be good at intimacy and generally adhere to a certain aesthetic.

“In reality, the intimacy you see in these kinds of films is often nothing more than a performance, while ‘good intimacy’ might be about feeling connected to someone.

“With this in mind, chances are you’ll enjoy the game more than the actors.” (NAN)