The Cuban TikToker @jacolove7 is making waves with his latest video, in which he shares some advice for those who want to maintain a relationship with a Cuban woman. With a laid-back style and lots of humor, Jacob reveals essential tips to maintain these relationships without them becoming dead ends.

“Do you want a relationship with a Cuban woman and do you really want to make it last? Here’s what you need to know,” he begins in the video, where he offers several tips. If you invite her over for dinner and she says she’ll be ready in five minutes, Jacob warns, “Bro, that’s an hour, wait, don’t look for trouble.” He also comments on couples’ fights, noting that if she tells you, “Hey, leave, go for a walk, I don’t want to see you here,” she doesn’t actually want you to leave the house: “Don’t even think about leaving,” he advises, suggesting that if you’re going to fight, you be the one cooking dinner that night.

Jacob also has some advice for interpreting common phrases that can be quite misleading. “If she says nothing is wrong, then everything is wrong, and if she says do what you want, do nothing, then that’s a challenge you’re already losing.” For Jacob, “dealing with a Cuban woman is not easy, and it’s not hard either, just be patient.”

Jacob’s followers were quick to respond, filling the comments section with their experiences and opinions: “That’s exactly how it is”; “That’s why only Cubans understand us”; “We’re complicated, but not difficult”; “That’s literally who we are,” were some of the responses, which also included a lot of laughter, something you often see when he shares this kind of content.